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Expats or people more known as ‘moved abroad’ can sometimes find it really challenging to settle in other countries.
Perhaps you're in another country experiencing the same challenges. Maybe some of you have recently relocated, or the allure of moving abroad has begun to diminish, revealing the complexities you hadn't anticipated.
I continue to find humor in the aspects I disliked in France but over time it becomes a somewhat normality. It's a point to ponder before relocating, along with a checklist to assist you, of course.
Moving To France: Everything You need To Know
I know from my experience- the first few years seemed like a whirlwind holiday- it was great! I say this because I didn't know any different than a city and had never seen such beautiful things like I have here in France before.
Mountains, beaches, sandy afternoons- who cares I thought. I enjoyed visiting every minute of it.
It's quite easy to escape your old life just admiring the views. After a while you realize there is only so much of speaking English you can get away with. Then comes along that realization- you have to become one of them to get things done in the day. I have quite enjoyed the challenge of learning French but I am far from bilingual yet.
What Inspired Me To Go To France?
In 2012, while employed at a retail store, I found myself feeling confined due to the hectic environment and the heat from dashing around to stockrooms.
An acquaintance from Manchester, UK, who had relocated to France, suggested I should see what the country has to offer.
I went to France with one backpack- all set to go. I snapped at the chance with flights paid for and supposedly a job, but that didn't take off- I did.
The next morning I was due to leave- Easy-jet took off over our heads at breakfast- my flight home. I had let my flight return alone. That's when the adventures really began. Let me tell you- it has been one of the most daring things I have ever done!
Culture Shocks
When you're accustomed to a certain lifestyle, observing the customs and behaviors in other countries can seem quite peculiar.
France likes to eat together around the same time.
Adjusting to the French dining schedule took some time; they typically eat around 12 pm, and it's common to see restaurants bustling then abruptly quiet once lunchtime ends. They reopen at 7 pm for dinner. On occasion, we'd be hungry and spot a convenient place, only to be told, "Non, non, non... we open at 7 pm."
In UK we eat whenever but over in France you may come across 'Refusing customers they are closing? They must be out of their minds!' But then again, that's French life for you- very timely!
In a bustling city like Paris, you're likely to discover a wide variety of dining options, whereas in smaller villages, you might encounter more rigid meal times. Majority of villages may have a bakery (boulangerie), and a small bar with restaurant that has also peculiar opening/closing times. This restriction typically applies to dining out, but you can always find a store to purchase your own groceries.
I still have a question: they could be making much more money if they were open all the time, but the French are clever. Perhaps this is their method of avoiding food waste and knowing exactly how many people they need to cater for.
Moving abroad can initially be overwhelming at first, giving you a sense of being lost but once you overcome it- it feels great to be here!
Socializing
First of all- French people are not ignorant. In cities on public transport, people tend to keep to themselves.
Fortunately, we have met individuals who understood us and also spoke English, which they enjoyed! In the villages of rural France, you might encounter delightful neighbors who are keen to present you with summer fruits and baked goods.
I once heard a remark about roast beef being referred to as 'English' in a bar full of hunters; it felt akin to the atmosphere of a saloon.
It's quite humorous that the French identify us British by our traditional roast dinners, which always brings a laugh. It's not intended to be offensive, so rest assured if you ever hear it!
Meeting new friends abroad isn't the same as at home.
Maintaining friendships can be challenging when you're constantly moving for work. You may be fortunate to find English-speaking friends, which is wonderful, but it's not a certainty. While your foreign friends may not mention it initially, they will eventually expect you to speak their language. It's considered polite to learn their language, and not doing so may come across as slightly ignorant.
Living in France has taught me to appreciate solitude.
I don't think everyone arrives here with a degree in French and a complete knowledge of everything—that would strip away much of the excitement. Making friends can be challenging. I've spent many years in isolation in the rural areas of France, which can test your patience in finding activities and your sanity in getting accustomed to the absence of people.
However, I've adapted to this lifestyle and I must admit, I wouldn't have learned half of the things I know today if I hadn't moved to France. It was during these solitary times that I learned so much online, from writing as I am now to establishing an online presence. Like anything, moving abroad has its advantages and disadvantages.
My weekends were once filled with bustling crowds! In my experience, those living in small villages tend to be reserved, preferring the tranquility of rural life over wild weekend parties. At night, even the faintest echo of music or the slightest noise can disturb the peace. It's difficult to forge strong friendships with neighbors, and it seems that forming bonds in professional settings isn't common either. While this might not be everyone's experience, it appears that many already have established social circles elsewhere.
There are many expat groups on social media for this and various other purposes throughout France. Some organize meetings, while others remain solely as online communities.
Be sure not to miss La Fete De La Musique where once a year locals come together to enjoy some great bands, a glass of your favorite drinks and a festival vibe!
The Fête de la Musique, also known as Music Day, Make Music Day, or World Music Day in English, is an annual celebration of music held on June 21st. On this day, citizens and residents are encouraged to play music outdoors in their neighborhoods or in public spaces and parks. Additionally, free concerts are organized where musicians perform for enjoyment rather than payment.
The inaugural all-day musical celebration on the summer solstice was initiated by Jack Lang, the French Minister of Culture at the time, and Maurice Fleuret. It was first observed in Paris in 1982. Since then, Music Day has been embraced by 120 countries worldwide.
Can You Speak French?
Learning a language before relocating can be immensely rewarding, allowing you to communicate effectively in your new home. I chose the opposite approach and moved to France without learning the language first. It was a challenging and often frustrating path. Therefore, I can guide you towards speaking French smoothly, sparing you the overwhelming experience I endured.
Sun loungers, sun and a French books didn't quite work for me- overwhelmed!
The internet provides a wealth of excellent free resources for learning French; however, pairing these with a structured program and conversational practice can significantly accelerate your learning process.
Learn French In France
I enrolled in an intensive course as well, which demanded 35 hours weekly, akin to a full-time job. The six-month duration was lengthy, yet it was a pleasurable experience that provided a change of scenery.
Simply ask for DAQ FLE at your local Pole Emploi (Job Centre) in every town cebtre (Centre Ville) which means to learn French as a foreign language My classmates were fellow foreigners learning French; together, we enjoyed the process and ultimately earned a certificate. Nonetheless, mastery is still distant. Without regular practice, it's all too simple to forget. I would encourage to meet new friends and regular language exchange.
French Shopping Experience
Upon my arrival un France, I struggled with shopping as it never crossed my mind that listening to the total price would ever become a problem! I was at a loss, unable to decipher the labels and the rush to get through the checkout. Thankfully, the supermarket checkout screens that we can see are a lifesaver.
"Quatre-vingt what?"
Those familiar with French numbering know its distinctiveness, and it's quite fascinating how numbers merge to create others when spoken.
The video from Matt Colbo's YouTube channel really hit the mark and has brought laughter to many. It's genuinely funny!
Finding Work In France
If I were to offer advice to those seeking employment in a foreign country, I would suggest starting by learning the local language. Even basic knowledge can be beneficial. It's not a certainty that an English-speaking job abroad will be permanent, and speaking the local language can simplify daily tasks and job hunting.
It's not possible to just pick any job in another country; their job search methods may be more challenging than what you're accustomed to. You might need to undergo extensive training to obtain certifications, even for entry-level positions. However, once acquired, these certifications can be very valuable.
Purchasing property abroad can be advantageous for those with a sustainable home-based income; however, rural areas may not be ideal for job seekers. From personal experience, I found this to be true after two years, especially with transportation being a significant issue.
Getting qualified to work In France
In France, training is required for nearly every profession. For instance, to work in a hotel, one must typically complete a nine-month program at a training school often provided by Pôle Emploi, the local job center found in the town center (Centre Ville) There are other study options, but most include obtaining certificates to present to potential employers. So if you ever hear of ''formations'' this just simply means courses to study.
English Speaking Companies In France
You may be fortunate to find English-speaking jobs in France, but it's crucial to consider the salary. Despite the allure of working overseas, many companies offer low wages, even to highly skilled workers, particularly in the tourism industry. This could be because they can take advantage of the fact that you're in a foreign country and may not speak the local language. Seasonal workers who take up summer and winter jobs often receive modest pay, but they are typically aware that they are opting for the lifestyle rather than a lucrative income.
Many people head to France to indulge in snow sports and socialize. Working in ski resorts as a chalet employee during winter or spending a season at campsites in mobile homes is popular. However, as time progresses, the challenge of securing employment again increases.
Working a summer season at campsites means you'll be jobless by October. Yet, it's equivalent to a six-month vacation, and you might manage to return the following year. Gaining experience can lead to winter employment in the mountains, ensuring year-round work. However, this isn't guaranteed, and it's advisable to have a stable residence in your home country.
After engaging in temporary work in France for some time, the urge to secure a permanent position arises. This proves difficult without fluency in the French language. I gravitated towards tourism roles as they were more accessible. The working seasons were enjoyable; despite the intense heat while cleaning at campsites, the nearby beach and leisure time made it all worthwhile.
The French System & Healthcare
Make sure to take this list into account; it will be extremely helpful! If I had been aware of all these details when I first moved, it would have made things much easier. Understanding the French system is complicated, but with the right assistance, it doesn't have to be overwhelming. Below is a succinct list to facilitate your adjustment process.
Understanding a foreign social and healthcare system can be challenging. In France, paperwork is a common aspect of the process. They love signatures and paperwork!
The procedures may appear far more complex than those in your home country, so it's crucial to gain some understanding of them.
Your Carte Séjour, or residence permit (Titre de séjour), is the residency card or appropriate visa, which you can obtain online.
The Carte Vitale is your health insurance coverage from the health insurance fund.
La CAF, or Caisse d'Allocations Familiales, is where you apply for family allowances/benefits and potentially have your rent covered if you qualify. To receive any benefits in France, you must have worked there for the past two years. Regarding the driving license, you may need to exchange it for a French one.
The Thrill Of More adventures!
After spending some time abroad, you adapt to a new culture and become accustomed to it. I imagine that once you've visited several beautiful places, you start to wonder 'what's next?' It's challenging, but the anticipation of gorgeous summers and breathtaking views makes it worthwhile.
The first summer was incredibly hot, reaching 44 degrees; I felt like I was being baked! Although it's not always that scorching, it was insane that the first summer turned out to be the hottest.
I think moving abroad has some kind of sacrifices to be made- your not as near to family and friends but you learn to work things out. I definitely miss good chip shop and a good old fashioned pub with old friends sometimes. Like here-there are somethings the UK has got that France has not- so its a balance of both you get to live with!
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Have you moved to France? How is your experience going? Feel free to join groups and make make groups about France on here too.
All the best for your next adventures and keep going with the language!
Susan Kiely
(The Editor)
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